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once announced, was the law of the house, In cases where his mind was capable of perceiving the reasons of a decision, we often assigned them but anxious to convince him that there always were reasons, we demanded an entire acquiescence in our determination, whether he saw its reasonableness or not; assuring him, that he would himself, when older and wiser, see that we had done right. When about two years of age, the question was brought to a practical issue: he obstinately refused for two hours to comply with a demand from his mother to beg her pardon for an offence. She was inflexible; and at length, he modestly turned round, submissively fell on his knees at her feet, and, in the most penitential accents, said, "I beg your pardon, mamma, and will never be so naughty again." The consequence of this patient decision was permanent. I am confident, that from that moment to the hour of his death, he ́never meditated opposition to our will, nor said or did a thing of which he feared we might seriously disapprove. In the merest trifles, no less really than in the most momen

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tous engagements of his life, he was ever studious of our happiness; and he felt that, in consulting this, he was securing his own.

These remarks may seem both trifling and unnecessary to those who have paid little or no attention to the philosophy of education; and who conceive it to consist only in the whipping and drilling of a school and a college: nor, in truth, do I entertain much hope that they will derive any material benefit from such minuteness. If not already aware that on these trifling circumstances much of the future character depends, I can scarcely calculate on finding among them a sufficient share of discernment to perceive the force of arguments by which the actual importance of these seeming trifles can be demonstrated. I wish to present before the public, a youth, of no ordinary character, equally distinguished by the brilliancy of his mental powers, the sweetness of his temper, and the strength and steadiness of his christian principles :—and it is not unnatural that I should give in detail the particulars of that process of education,

by which, under God, those powers were developed, and that entire character formed. The first five or six years generally determine that which constitutes the individuality-the leading peculiarity, of the man through life. And he must have been a careless observer, who has not perceived the permanence of early associations and early habits. Circumstances, in afterlife, may modify that peculiarity, but they will never be able wholly to destroy it. And even the power of divine grace, which may effect a total moral revolution; which may implant principles, that, after unfolding themselves here, shall receive their more complete development in another world; will leave it to the end of time almost untouched. It has become too intimately a part of the mental constitution to be annihilated by any thing short of that solemn event, which shall dissolve every earthly tie, and place us in a region of light and love, whose transforming influence shall leave no portion of the character unassimilated to the likeness of our God and Saviour. As the efficacy of even religious principles, in forming the character, is

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so materially affected by these previous associations and habits, it is of immense importance to the individual and, to society that special attention should be paid to the minuter circumstances of early life. These remarks will, it is hoped, be deemed sufficient to justify the past, or any future, detail of particulars.

THE most important light in which our dear child appeared to us was that of a MORAL AND IMMORTAL BEING. And while we prayed most especially for the advancement of his highest interests in time and eternity, we knew that it were mockery to offer prayer, did we not employ all the means in our power to enlighten, impress, and guide him. We ever felt that an influence from heaven was necessary to render our labors effectual;-that He, "from whom cometh every good and perfect gift," must be the primary agent in this great work ;-but that we had to hope for and calculate on that influence, only as we added our endeavors to our supplications. The Nile, fed by the rains of distant mountains, rolls majestically along in its course; rises above, and spreads over, the face of Egypt; giving to that land all its fertility :—yet a large portion of the effect depends upon the husbandmen, who wisely construct their reservoirs, and so pre

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